Shi Shuangcheng can slap him, but how can I turn a blind eye when I am a student in several countries after all? What the school does with him is not up to me, but that’s my attitude. "
Hua Zhen Bank is so humble and eager to learn, and so the necessities don’t enter the cow. After a long period of painstaking communication, he still failed to get his signature on the handling receipt. Before leaving, he could say that he would give his opinions back to the school leaders.
If such a thing happened for several miles, Guohua would have called Shire and Minister of Education Shen Si.
But this is the East Country. As an ordinary international student, he can also have the channels and take measures to solve problems, but it feels good and he can learn a lot.
Although Hua Zhenxing said that Joe Chung-gao didn’t need to apologize to others, the day after Director Niu left, Joe Chung-gao found the dormitory in Hua Zhen with a gift and wanted to apologize to him face to face.
Chapter 41. An apology equals a second injury.
Since people come to apologize, it is not good to drive people away with a straight face in Hua Zhen. As Director Niu said, people must be given a chance to reflect and admit their mistakes
Joe Chung-gao is twenty-seven this year. If someone listens to his accent, I’m afraid that Hua Zhenxing is his hometown. Although the goalkeeper let him in and asked him to sit down and talk, he was still a little upset.
Is it a real apology to have to apologize under pressure?
However, if Joe Chung-gao still comes, it is normal to say that a social right and wrong judging mechanism is still normal. People all know that he did something wrong, otherwise Hua Zhen Bank will also complain. That is to say, the social error correction mechanism is still running, otherwise no one will have to put pressure on him.
At one time, the judging mechanism of right and wrong in several countries was not normal, but the error correction mechanism was no longer running. That is why the new alliance of the people in the bottom block will fight hard
The trip to Hua Zhen can’t help but think of Aden’s experience. At the beginning, plantation thugs were free to set dogs to bite those slave labor houses. The trip to Hua Zhen cherished the present Guinea and liked the present East.
Since I like Dongguo, it is of course even more uncomfortable to see Joe Chung’s height.
If Joe Chung-gao is sincere enough, he should not let Director Niu touch the nail, but take the initiative to come to Hua Zhen to apologize first. Is it because Joe Chung-gao is not clever enough to come with Director Niu? Of course not!
If Hua Zhen Bank signed the processing receipt yesterday, I’m afraid I can’t wait for Joe Zhong.
There is something unpleasant about Hua Zhen’s behavior, that is, the idealist is naive and earnest, that is, a few words have not caused substantial and serious consequences, and Qiao Zhong’s master has been beaten and suffered.
However, it is very clear in Hua Zhen that it is impossible for every student to be Shi Shuangcheng, and it is even more impossible for everyone to be him. In Hua Zhen, the probability that Joe Zhong Gao meets people like them is too small.
In most cases, Joe Chung-gao will neither be beaten nor punished, which is hard to give him the illusion that he should neither be beaten nor punished for doing things himself. How could a trip to Hua Zhen give him such an illusion?
Qiao Zhong is very upset. What is he worried about? This is what Hua Zhen can directly understand. Although Hua Zhen has not practiced Buddhism, he knows his emotions, but he still takes the back door to see the mountain. "Teacher Qiao, what can I do for you?"
See Hua Zhen’s attitude is fair. Joe Zhong is relieved and sincere. "Chinese classmate, I’m here to apologize to you!
At that time, I really accidentally put my foot in my mouth in front of Shi Shuangcheng’s classmates. I have already admitted my mistake to the leader and I will admit it to you today … "
It is impossible for Hua Zhen to ask, "What on earth are you wrong?" It’s not a couple quarrel, and it must have been very clear when the hospital leaders criticized Joe Zhong for being high.
So Hua Zhenxing is quietly listening to see what Joe Zhong Gao really wants.
After apologizing, Joe Zhong Gao took out the latest nectarine mobile phone from his carry-on handbag and put it on the table. "This is my little apology, please accept it!"
Hua Zhen smiled and pushed the phone back. "There is no need for a gift. Please take it back. I won’t accept it."
Joe Zhong was in a hurry. "This is my apology. Please accept my apology!"
Hua Zhen trip "Apologize, I will not accept things."
Qiao Zhong was surprised and asked, "Are Chinese students willing to accept an apology?"
Hua Zhen line "I never don’t want to! What should I not accept? "
Joe Zhong Gao "So you are willing to forgive me?"
Hua Zhen trip "If you really repent, of course I won’t blame you now."
Joe Zhong Gao took out the receipt from Director Niu yesterday. "Then please sign this material and the school will not complain. But the Ministry of Education and the Ministry of Foreign Affairs still need you to withdraw the complaint."
This requires you to go to all the gifts separately, please don’t accept them! Do you have any other requirements? Don’t forget to come out together. "
Hua Zhenxing narrowed his eyes. "I accept the apology, but I can’t accept the word gift, I can’t sign a complaint, and I can’t withdraw it."
Qiao Zhong was stunned. "Didn’t you just say you were willing to forgive me?"
Hua Zhen Line "Is that what you mean by forgiveness?"
Joe Zhong Gao "What else can that mean?"
Hua Zhen trip "It seems that you don’t quite understand the meaning of apology. The so-called apology represents an attitude to admit that you made a mistake. If people think they didn’t make a mistake but are unfairly punished, they can stand their ground."
Of course, I think you are wrong, so I am willing to accept your apology. I will not blame you for apologizing now. My complaint is that you have made mistakes in words and deeds. The two are not the same thing.
Admitting mistakes is not a punishment, but a kind of self-salvation. If you don’t admit mistakes, you can’t correct your words and deeds. If you really admit mistakes, you should recognize my complaint instead of asking me to withdraw it.
If you take an apology as a means to force the offended person who is hurt by you to tolerate your injury and offense, it is not really a mistake, but to let the other person accept your mistake.
A real apology should not be made to the victim, forcing the victim to express his position and letting himself escape punishment is actually a second injury to the victim.
In reality, many victims may say’ I don’t ask for an apology’, which is often because they try their best to punish those who hurt them and hope that the social judgment mechanism of right and wrong is still normal.